Family and friends of Tioga County resident Valerie Vergason-Ridgway invite the community to a benefit being held in Valerie's honor from noon to 7 p.m. on Sunday, July 20 at the Moose Lodge, 3 Goodrich Settlement Rd., Owego, N.Y. A barbecue by Ozzie's Brisket and BBQ Grill from Endicott, N.Y. will be served, which includes a choice of chicken or pork, and two side dishes. Cost is $10 per person, with 20 percent of the proceeds going toward the benefit.
Fun activities are planned at the event including basket raffles, a cake wheel, a 50/50, a lottery board, and auction items all day. A variety of music will also be played throughout the day, with a disc jockey stationed inside and the band "Silverheart" playing outside from 1 to 4 p.m.
Valerie, age 62 and a graduate of Tioga Central High School, was diagnosed in October 2013 with small cell cancer. After repeated bladder infections and noticing that her stomach had enlarged, Valerie became concerned. With no other symptoms evident, a kidney issue was her doctor's first opinion, although an initial CT scan showed an enlarged liver. Additional CT scans from her shoulder to her pelvis showed multiple cancer spots on her lung, lymph nodes, bone and liver.
Cancer specialists have explained to Valerie that she will never go into remission, so chemo treatments have been ordered indefinitely, the twelfth round having been completed on June 30. On June 23, Valerie had a port placed because her veins are no longer viable. Valerie also endures monthly shots injected into her bones, as well as regularly scheduled CT scans. Unable to work for quite some time, Valerie previously had six surgeries on her back and neck.
Valerie receives treatment at Lourdes Regional Cancer Center, Binghamton, N.Y. She is able to drive herself a majority of the time, but also needs help. Multiple trips from Candor to Binghamton take a toll on her, including separate trips for body scans and blood work.
Despite the intense treatment regimen, Valerie is thankful that she has had limited chemo side effects, although the latest chemo treatment did cause one unpleasant side effect. A significant issue she deals with has been lack of energy and the overwhelming feeling of always being tired. Complete hair loss has also affected her. She does attempt to do regular daily activities, including helping her 84-year-old mother when she can, however low energy level often restricts her. Valerie is also thankful to have her grandchildren nearby to help her when needed.
A committee of family and friends has joined together in organizing the benefit for Valerie Vergason-Ridgway. Proceeds will help Valerie with medical expenses and travel costs incurred for ongoing cancer treatments. For example, each bone shot that Valerie receives monthly is $4,000, let alone all the other mounting medical costs. Valerie does have insurance, but the extraordinary cost of her treatment is not fully covered by her medical plan.
Donations will also be accepted by anyone unable to attend the benefit. Checks can be mailed to WOTM (Women of the Moose), 3 Goodrich Settlement Rd., Owego, N.Y. 13827, to the attention of Valerie's Benefit.
A pitch tournament is planned on Sunday, Aug. 3 starting at 12:30 p.m. at the Moose Lodge. The cost is $25 for a two person team, and $5 of that will be set aside for Valerie's Benefit. Call (607) 258-4024 for information, or to sign up for the tournament.
Benefit organizers are looking for bands to participate at the July 20 event. Call Sheila Gallagher at (607) 258-4024 for more information. Auction items are also still being accepted. Refer to the Facebook page "Valerie (Vergason) Ridgway Cancer Benefit" or contact Gallagher for details.
Valerie is genuinely thankful for the support of her friends and family, and also the community. She has two sons, four granddaughters and one grandson.